Thursday, May 24, 2012

How To Get A Guy To Propose To You: Make Him Ask For Your Hand In Marriage


You have been going out for a while, and waiting for him to propose to you has already seemed like an eternity. You know that the guy you are with is the one person that you see yourself spending the rest of your life with, but you cannot seem to figure out how to get a guy to propose to you. If this is your current dilemma, then you should worry no more.
Finding out ways to make your guy make that proposal that you have been waiting for might be a little tricky; but if you play your cards right, you might be successful in making him tell you how much he feels about being with you for as long as he lives. The key here is not to overdo it - because this might make him feel that he is being dragged into a situation that he is not ready for. You know that you are both happy to have each other, so this is one thing that you can take advantage of.
Making your guy realize that it is about time for both of you to make a lifetime commitment can be done through a series of steps: 
  • one single but sure step at a time. Try not to be too obvious when you are finding out how to get a guy to propose to you because guys can easily detect this and it might make your man panic and turn his back on you. Instead, plant some "suggestive messages" in his brain without him noticing it. Here are some tricks that you might want to try to get that proposal:
  • Hang out with friends who are already engaged to be married - this method would not be too obvious because your friends are a constant part of your lives and you are both used to having them around. Being with engaged couples would give him the curiosity to think about your relationship's current situation.
  • On a movie night, suggest to watch a movie which has a happily engaged couple as characters in the movie - even if he does not agree to watch that movie and choose to watch something else instead, you would get the chance to tell him the synopsis of the movie when he asks "What is this movie about?", which is one way to somehow make the idea of "proposal" register in his brain.
  • Try to spend more time with family - yes, there is no better way to make him feel the connection other than spending time with family and relatives. Whether it is a family dinner on your side or his side, it would work well nevertheless.

Be patient enough and you can ensure that your efforts on how to get a guy to propose to you would surely pay off. In due time, he would be able to realize that you two belong to each other, and it is about time that your relationship move on to the next level.



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Monday, May 21, 2012

From "Hello" to "I Do" - Getting A Man To Propose

So, you met "that guy". The one who gives you butterflies. You can't wait for the phone to ring, to hear his voice and see his face. Every time you see him you are more sure he is "the one". You see each other all the time and things are going great. You go out with his friends and yours, you have become a couple. And then your friends and family are asking if you're going to "tie the knot". Your response is always "in time, it's still new". But, in the back of your mind, you are wondering the same thing. You start picturing your wedding, who you will invite, what colors you will have, and where you will go on your honeymoon. You are picturing your future together, where you will live and your plans for after that.


But, things start to cool off on his end. He calls, but not as frequently. You go out, and on the surface things seem to be fine, but underneath he seems distant. When the subject of moving forward comes up, he has no problem saying "he is not ready for a commitment just yet." You decide you need to give him a little time to see how wonderful you are. Surely then he will realize it's time to move forward. But, time goes on, and so does your relationship. Except, your relationship is not moving forward, you have hit the wall and don't know what to do to get him past his "commitment issues".


So, you talk to your mother who gives you the "why would he buy the cow, when he gets the milk for free" speech, that's no help. You talk to your friends, and they offer all kinds of suggestions that require you to be manipulative, pushy, or the surefire "ultimatum", which is an absolute kiss of death to any relationship. Because, who really wants to get married that way. Let's face it, if it goes sour, it's your fault for forcing them into it. So, you start looking at the women's magazines that will tell you how to "catch that man of yours", or "bedroom tricks to make him yours forever". The truth is, the reason your relationship has stalled probably has nothing to do with his "commitment issues", or what tricks you don't do in the bedroom.


You see, the idea that all you need is love, is a myth. To bring your relationship to a meaningful level, there are certain things women need to understand about men. Men do not process feelings the same as women. Men feel in their gut. Don't get me wrong, they feel in their heart as well, but they process emotions via "gut feelings". An example of this would be...He takes you out someplace really expensive for dinner. Instead of talking about him, you start talking about his income, his nice car or expensive clothes...his gut tells him you may just be interested in his money. Or, you want him to know everything about you, so you continually bring up your past relationships and how they have affected you. His gut is telling him you are either comparing him to them, or you have not gotten over one.


To reach a man's gut and make a deep connection, women need to chip away at their armor by getting to know the "real him". This is not done by asking "resume" questions or making meaningless small talk. This is done by asking him questions that allow him to reveal himself to you. Men want a woman who is compatible to make their life journey with them, someone who fits them. If you are giving the impression you are not "that woman" his armor will remain in tact, and you will end up in a relationship that goes nowhere.


The most important thing a woman can do to get and keep a man, is learn how to understand them. Men are not complicated, however, deep down they do know what they want in a woman, and they do know the right one when they find her. Once you understand how to make him feel like you are the one he has been looking for his whole life, you will find the love and happiness of the marriage you have always dreamed. Take the first step to attracting and keeping your man for Love and a Long Lasting Relationship.


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Sunday, May 20, 2012

From Dating To Marriage - How To Get The Commitment And The Ring!


So you have met who you think is "the one". After several months of dating and a relationship that seemed to be moving forward, suddenly it doesn't seem to be going anywhere at all. There are no discussions of the future. You are having these conversations with your girlfriends and sisters, but this conversation is not happening with the one who matters, him. Is he commitment challenged, does he have relationship issues or, is it you?
Well, it can't be what you are doing because everyone is telling you that you are perfectly fine and he is lucky to have you, so therefore, it must be him! That's the problem with having those discussions and looking for advise from "the girls". Now, don't get me wrong, having "girl talks" is a wonderful thing, I have them myself from time to time. In some instances they are quite helpful for certain things. One thing I personally have realized from years of observation and these conversations, is that women (wonderful creatures that we are) simply do not understand men. The mistake women make is believing that men think (and should think) like women! Wouldn't our lives be so mush easier if they did?
After years of bad relationships that went absolutely nowhere, I took some time (9 years to be exact) to study other people and their relationships. I befriended men and picked their brains about how they felt about women, what turned them on, what turned them off and what made them put on the brakes even if they loved someone. I was amazed at what I learned because women would not believe how basic and simple men truly are. Don't get me wrong, I am NOT saying they are stupid. I am saying they are NOT complicated.
What I am leading to is this. It is very possible, or even more likely, that women do or say the wrong thing, and it will cause a man to put on the brakes. You see, men, even emotional ones, feel with their gut. That's not to say they don't feel with their hearts, they do! But, their relationship decisions are made in their gut. Let's be honest here, we have all seen those couples, happy couples, the one where he just ADORES her and would give her the world. In fact, after they met, in no time at all, he presented her with a ring during some romantic evening or event. We have all seen them...and we have all wondered "what is he doing with her?" Maybe she isn't magazine beautiful, or built like Jennifer Lopez. So what is it? The answer is VERY SIMPLE! SHE UNDERSTANDS HIM!
There is a very misguided notion out there that all men are superficial and shallow. Women think that what is important is good breasts, beautiful face, great behind and that they ROCK in the bedroom. Although men appreciate these things, believe it or not, those are NOT the most important qualities men are looking for in their mate.
So, here it is...men want a woman they can make a deep connection with. From the first date, if women are asking "resume" questions and simple small talk, it's not likely they will get very far. You need to learn to ask the questions that allow him to reveal himself to you. Men wear a suit of armor that they will not remove all at once. A woman needs to chip away at that armor so he feels comfortable revealing himself to her. Men want to be loved for who they really are, not the guy they show the rest of the world. They will love the woman who understands them and not just their paycheck or their car, or the fact that they have a great face, or great body. They want to commit to the woman who wants what they want in a future and they will not reveal that to just anyone.
Stop wasting your time on tabloid or magazine suggestions to "get your man!" Trust me, they don't have a clue, because they are written by women! If you are in a relationship that has hit the wall, you need to learn the secrets to reverse the damage. I can tell you what does NOT work...Playing hard to get, trying to manipulate him, or trying to push him. The worst thing you can do is issue the ultimatum!
If you want to get and keep that great guy you think is "the one", then the best thing you can do for yourself is learn how to let him know you understand him. I speak from experience. I met the love of my life, he proposed three months later and we were married eight months after that! He is still the love of my life and I am his. After thirteen years, it's better than it ever was! You can get that ring! You just need to learn how!
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